Not a miracle but rather a nightmare 😕

For as much hope and promise I thought that relationship had, it's over. He dumped me almost 3 days ago for reasons he cobbled together to obviously get rid of me. Not only did he refuse to discuss the issue at hand, he abruptly shut me down and out when I showed distress regarding his decision. Everyone always says that everything happens for a reason. My issue is that reason always seems to cause me pain. Why must my only choice be feeling pain or being alone?