The Key

I think that after all of these years, I can definitively say that my issues with men and being treated poorly all stems from one thing: I didn't love myself at all. In actuality, I absolutely hated me. I know it's cliche to talk about loving yourself but it's true. I know I have always had weak or nonexistent boundaries with others, especially men. However it's only been lately that I realized this was an issue with everyone I interacted with, not just men. I allowed myself to be treated poorly by everyone and perhaps what's worse is that I accepted this behavior time and again. I allowed this poor treatment from friends, coworkers, bosses, and family. I never believed in myself or placed any value on who I was or what I had to offer therefore no one else did either. I have always heard that you teach others how to treat you and boy, did I throw myself under the bus at every turn?!
But no matter, now that I know better, I can do better! 😊