Don't Sell Yourself Short

I have been thinking lately about what I have to offer in a relationship vs. what I have historically offered without thinking.
I have many positive qualities including intelligence, motivation, sense of humor, good conversation, optimism, supportive, a good mother and friend, in addition to many more. However, instead of getting to know a man and waiting for him to discover all of these great qualities, I would immediately bring up my prowess in the bedroom. One of my favorite things to mention was my extraordinary talent when it comes to giving blowjobs. Of course, most men loved this and was more than willing to judge my talent. Unfortunately I was selling myself short time and again by engaging in this behavior. In the future, that topic will not even enter into conversation for at least the first few months. My goal is to enter into a healthy relationship no matter how long I must wait.