Romantic intrigue

From new-hope-recovery.com:

"Romantic intrigue, which is defined as flirting, innuendo or other manipulative behaviors designed to "hook" someone in"

I have found that romantic intrigue is very sneaky and sometimes happens without a person even being aware of it. For example, I am very conscientious about my appearance, making sure my hair looks decent and I smell good. I have also observed that whenever a man to whom I am attracted is around, I will revert back to past behaviors that I know typically get positive attention. One of these behaviors is drawing attention to my tongue, which is extraordinarily long and pierced. I know this quality drives most men wild and that's why it has become second nature for me. Plus I notice that I automatically focus my attention primarily on someone in the room to whom I am attracted. I write about this because this has been happening with a grad school classmate of mine. He is significantly younger than me and not what I am typically attracted to. I am not sure if this is occurring because I haven't had sex in a year and fantasizing makes me horny. Nonetheless, it's something that has entered my radar that needs to be stopped.