Tuesday, May 29, 2018

Independence

I have recently found myself (at times) feeling sorry for myself or "less than" because I am navigating this life alone. So many people in this world are a part of a couple and this reality is one that faces me in all areas of my daily life from work, family and friends, church, dance class, and every place in between. Sometimes I feel bad that I don't have a partner and other times, I feel proud of myself that I am dealing with life on my own. I have had a great role model for the latter in the form of my mother. My mom left my dad 10 years ago in an effort to start completely over from scratch, at times working 2 jobs and 7 days per week, in order to make ends meet and stay true to herself.
In conclusion, I should never view my current situation as a negative trait or feel ashamed or powerless about it. It's actually a sign of strength and power. Additionally, I will never have to depend on anyone else to provide any of my daily necessities. That in and of itself is invaluable.

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