As part of working Step 1 of the 12 Steps, I have decided to write a consequences inventory. This is simply a list of the consequences that my love/sex addiction has caused me to suffer.
1. Jeopardizing the life of my son and myself.
2. Not being fully present for college classes.
3. Having high credit card balances.
4. Engaging in behaviors that do not match my values.
5. Spending time engaging in activities that I wasn't interested in or agreed with.
6. Lost time with family and friends.
7. Abandoning myself with every single relationship.
8. Being reckless with my sexual health.
9. Engaging in other risky behaviors such as drinking and driving when I was with a qualifier.
10. Never having developed a sense of who I truly am.
11. Never developed healthy boundaries.
12. Have never used healthy dating practices.
13. I objectified other people and allowed them to objectify me.
14. Constantly making a man my Higher Power.
15. Being willing to give up everything dear to me to please a man.
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