I have spent a great amount of time in the past few days thinking about this topic. And I have come to the most sobering of conclusions: I have never had a healthy relationship in my 22 year history of relationships. While that makes me sad, I also realize that there is nothing that I can do to change the past so I can only work to enjoy the present and make the future the very best that it can be! I have been thinking about the average length of time recommended before talking about sex in any context with a potential partner: at least 30 days or 10 dates. I simply find this shocking because I have never even thought to set any boundaries like this at all. I am very excited to start practicing healthy dating once I feel ready to do so. I also need to work on setting and maintaining boundaries because I have struggled with this a great deal in the past.
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