God's will for me

Both in my meetings and in church, I have been hearing much about God's will for us. And it has got me thinking: exactly what is God's will for me? I am pretty sure that it includes continuing to work in the helping profession and also to attend grad school and meet my career goals. But what else does God have in store for me?
I have often pondered whether God has a partner earmarked for me sometime in the future. I certainly hope so because I do want the chance to have a healthy relationship someday.
Today in church, my pastor was discussing how many of us pray consistently for something but get weary and discouraged when God doesn't answer our prayers in the time frame that we think He should. Pastor said be patient, don't give up. Things in this world happen within God's time, not ours. Be still. Wait. Stay strong. Don't give up.