You are not alone!

So I have been struggling a bit the past few days...mostly with the obsessive thoughts about HIM. No, my life wouldn't be better/easier/more peaceful if he were in it. I have been trying to replace these ridiculous thoughts with more realistic ones: someone who doesn't care about me, lives with their mommy, is financially irresponsible, and emotionally unavailable is NEVER GOING TO MAKE MY LIFE BETTER. I need to reread this whenever I feel like I miss him.
Two books/blogs have been giving me much needed hope over the past several weeks: Getting Past Your Breakup and Women Who Love Too Much. Both of these books contain so much relatable information for me, it's a bit uncanny. GPYB also has a companion Facebook support group which has been invaluable to me as well. I am doing my best everyday!